Friday Farm Favorites: The Perfect Gift
Good friend and animal advocate extraordinaire, Ralph Sites posing with dear, little Bizou on the day of his adoption.
December 2016
This photo represents more than just a man and a dog at Christmastime. It represents the true meaning of kindness, goodness, service—and, most importantly…PURPOSE. Our friend, Ralph has a family, a job, and a life of responsibilities like many of us; however, he still finds time to do what he loves: advocate for animals….and, he’s good at it! Whether it’s volunteering with local animal shelters to nurture dogs and cats in transition to their new homes, assisting birds with broken wings at the Wildlife Center of Virginia, or just helping a friend find the perfect companion, Ralph is always motivated to use his special gifts of understanding, patience, and kindness to help an animal have a better life.
I first saw our dog, Dash on a local animal shelter’s Facebook (FB) post in 2014. Ralph volunteered at this particular shelter and shared this unfortunate dog’s status. Dash’s situation was urgent. He had been at the shelter for nearly a month. The shelter was at capacity, and more animals were arriving every day. Dash’s time was running out. When I realized this young, intelligent, and beautiful Border Collie mix was about to be euthanized, I immediately sent Ralph a FB message. I asked if Dash was good with other dogs and if he tolerated cats. It was around 6 or 7 o’clock in the evening, and of course, Ralph was at the shelter. He asked me to hold on a minute while he took a cat into a room to test Dash. The verdict: “He’s fine with dogs and afraid of cats.” Farmguy and I definitely wanted Dash, but we couldn’t get to the shelter for a few days due to our schedules. But, Dash didn’t have a few days. The shelter needed the room…ASAP. At this point, Ralph generously offered to take Dash to his own home until we could adopt him. Thankfully, we were able to reschedule some of our commitments in order to take Dash home earlier. We were so grateful to Ralph for helping this wonderful dog…and for helping us.
Farmguy and I also discovered our other dog, Bizou on one of Ralph’s animal shelter FB posts. We were three hours away from the shelter the day I saw a picture of Bizou’s sweet face. He was seven months old and had just been surrendered. Once again, I sent Ralph a FB message. The animal shelter wasn’t really open to the public that Sunday, but Ralph, there walking dogs, offered to wait until we could arrive a bit later. It was a chilly Sunday afternoon in December, and all the dogs were taking their turns going outside for playtime. We instantly loved Bizou (even though he was REALLY stinky) and knew we wanted to adopt him, but I asked Ralph if we could return the next day. I preferred for this puppy to visit our veterinarian first, before bringing him home for introductions with Dash and Clemmie Cat. Ralph kindly offered to meet me at the veterinarian clinic with Bizou first thing Monday morning. And, thanks to Ralph’s thoughtfulness, I found a freshly bathed Bizou all cuddled up awaiting me.
In helping our Dash and Bizou find forever homes and better lives, Ralph also gave us the gift of a happier, more enriched life that is full of joy because of our relationships with these two intelligent and loving dogs. It’s difficult to tell you everything Dash and Bizou have meant to our lives. We love them with all of our hearts, and I know they love each other, too. What I can say is this: A huge and heartfelt thank you, Ralph. Your resolve to advocate for innocent animals as well as your gestures of kindness have had such far reaching effects, and we are forever grateful. xoxo
So, here’s the thing: Right now, many of us may be contemplating the year ahead. We’re thinking of new ways to be healthier, more efficient, and even better organized in 2018. But, maybe, what we should be thinking about is….OUR PURPOSE. You know, the thing each of us does better than anyone else. The thing that makes us happy and fulfilled. Consider your special gifts and interests, and then, ask yourself a very important question.
How can I use these gifts to lift up and help others?
When you put your skills and talents to use for the greater good—like our friend, Ralph, you unlock your true reason for being. And, what better way to begin the New Year?
“It is one of the beautiful compensations of life that no man can sincerely try to help another without helping himself.
~Ralph Waldo Emerson
Wishing you a lovely and purpose-filled weekend! 🙂
Categories: Animals, Friday Farm Favorites, Photography
People like Ralph make this world a better place – I am so glad he worked with you and so many others, to make sure these beautiful, loving animals found forever homes.
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Ralph definitely makes this world a better place! Thank you so much for your lovely comment. 😊🐶
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What a cool post! Y’all rock for sure!
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You’re sweet!! Thank you. 🙂
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I enjoyed reading this heartwarming story. Your dogs are beautiful. Happy New Year!
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How kind! I’m so glad you enjoyed the story. Thank you very much, Sheryl. A very Happy New Year to you as well!
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Ralph is a gem and bless his kind heart for helping animals. Both you and Farmguy are also very kind to take in strays and give each a loving home filled with food and “parental” love. Proud of you both!👍😃Bless you all💕💕
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Ralph has helped so many animals in our community. And, he has such a kind and patient heart, especially for animals who are misunderstood. Farmguy and I both love animals and are blessed to have them in our lives. Thank you so much, Garfield. 💗🐶🐱🐏🐓
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Happy weekend
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Thank you. Happy weekend to you!
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Thanks Farmgirl
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I hope you having a great weekend 😉
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Thank you! 🙂
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What a wonderful man Ralph is. One of those unsung heroes. And you are so right – we can all tap into something and do something good for others. All it takes is a little willingness. I hope many will be inspired by your story to get willing. Happy last weekend of the year to you and yours and also to Ralph who is quite humbling in his generosity of spirit 💝
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He really is, Osyth. Ralph is an inspiration! And you’re right…all it takes to help others is a little willingness. 💛 Many thanks for your kind comment. Wishing you and your family a very Happy New Year! 💗🎉xo
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What a wonderful story with a great moral Tonya!
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I’m happy you enjoyed it! Thank you, Ritu. 🙂
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Awww… the Ralph’s of the world make the world a better place.
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I agree, Jennie! You are one of those people as well. Your little students are so fortunate to have a wonderful teacher like you! 🙂💛
Happy New Year! xo
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Thank you for your kind words, Tonya! Happy New Year! 🎊
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To find true purpose…what a lovely goal for this new year or any ! Thanks and Happy New Year, Tonya. Your pups are perfect, the pics are adorable.
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We love our pups!! They bring sunshine to each day. 😊 A heartfelt thank you, Van. Happy New Year!
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Your story is a lovely one, and the photos are marvelous. Happy New Year!
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Thank you so much. Anne. I think Ralph is a wonderful example of how each of us can make a difference and impact others in a positive way. We all have worth and value, and what we do matters. 😊💛
Happy New Year to you and your family!
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The world needs more Ralphs!! Wonderful story, and I’m so glad you gave Dash and Bizou such a wonderful forever family!! ❤
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The world definitely needs more Ralphs! Sometimes I think Dash and Bizou rescued us. 😊💗 Thanks so much, Kathryn. 🙂 xo
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What an amazing man…thank you for sharing!
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He’s an inspiration! Thank you for visiting. 🙂
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