Something to Ponder
Before Christmas, I read an article along the lines of self-empowerment and jotted down some highlights that made an impression. I know I’ve heard much of this advice at one time or another, but seeing it all together resonated. I looked for the article the other day, but unfortunately, I misplaced it. I did, however, manage to find my scribbled notes. I thought they were worth sharing.
—Be Bold.
Go for what you want and don’t be afraid of hearing “no.” Embrace your choices and own them.
—Know when to walk away.
Cultivate a no-B.S. attitude. Never invest your time and energy into something or someone who isn’t offering respectable returns.
—Communicate your needs and set boundaries.
Never sit silently in front of someone who disrespects you. Set a boundary right then and there…and move forward.
**–Bounce back from problems.
Look for a solution. Learn the lesson, apply it to the future, and move on. Don’t waste time regretting.
—Actions speak louder…
Never rely on words. Only through actions can we gauge the true motives and feelings of others.
—Know when to say “no.”
Don’t be a pushover. And, NEVER apologize for doing things that make you happy. Never bend yourself backwards, forward (and backwards again) to please people who wouldn’t do the same for you.
**–Don’t play the victim.
You’re in total control of how you react to a situation. When things get tough, roll-up your sleeves and get tougher.
—Make a life that you actually ENJOY living.
Push yourself to take risks to be happy.
—Don’t compete with other women.
Empower them. Seeing other women growing around you is a good thing.
And finally,
—Don’t define yourself by your looks.
After all, they fade. However, your strength of character, intelligence, kindness, and generosity are eternal. 🙂
Categories: Inspiration, Photography
Such sage words of advice Tonya! Thank you for this!
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Thanks, Ritu. I’m happy to share! It was a great article.
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💛💛💛
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😊
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Nice read
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Thank you.
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Great advice, all of it!
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Thanks. I’m happy it was helpful!
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Wise words and great advice and I love the photo of you on the wall.
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Thank you so much. The photo was taken on the Blue Ridge Parkway in Virginia. I’m glad you enjoyed the post!
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Too good Tonya😀👍
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Thanks, Shivangi. 😊🌻
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Those are definitely notes worth saving. Thanks, Tonya.
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I will definitely save them. And, read them often. Thank you, Van. 😊
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These are all wonderful bits of wisdom. They could be printed out and pinned up to remind yourself, right? Love it!
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I love that idea! Thanks, Kathryn.
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Very wise 🙂 I commend you on your note taking!
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Thanks, Joey. 🙂
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Brilliant awesome advice! 😉
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I was happy I ran across it! Thanks a bunch, Michelle. 😊
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😉
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Real wisdom!
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I wish I could find the article. It’s probably in the bottom of a drawer somewhere. 😉 Thank you, Osyth.
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I find these things have a habit of turning up when we stop looking 😉
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I believe you’re right. 🙂
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These are darn good notes!!!
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Well, thank you! 🙂 I’m a bit of an over-doer.
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Great post and lovely photos.
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I’m delighted you enjoyed it! Many thanks, Jennie.
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My pleasure! 🙂
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Yes, yes and YES!! Some of them are especially important … thank you for sharing these 🙂 We all need a bit of a push and words work wonders!
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I agree that we all need a bit of a push. I thought the author’s words were timely, and I was happy to share. Thanks so much, Prajakta. 🙂
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Bingo!
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Thank you for visiting and commenting! 🙂 🌻
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Good notes! I like them very much!
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You’re very kind! Thank you for stopping by and commenting. 🙂
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Such wonderful advice. I stil have a long way to go, but I am trying to get there! 🙂
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I thought it was helpful as well. You’re not alone in feeling that way. I know I certainly do! Thank you, Judy. 😊
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The last comment is the most important of all! We are all getting older, so we need to learn to like what we see and stop worrying about it!
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I completely agree with you!
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Thanks for inspiring me too! Your words are appreciated.
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That’s so sweet! Thank you for visiting. 🙂
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I really like the filed with the sheep. amazing. Lucky girl! Thx for the inspiring words..much appreciated! 💖
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Thank you for your kind comment. 😊 We enjoy having sheep. They’re lovely animals and caring for them is rewarding. I’m happy you stopped by! 🌻🐑
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Live your own life is wise advice. Great post. May I reblog?
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Thank you so much. Of course! So glad you visited. 🙂
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Reblogged this on Life and Random Thinking and commented:
Tonya has ideas that I felt were especially well expressed and they apply to all of us. Pick one and comment.
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Thank you for guiding me here! 🙂
What a wonderful post- ❤
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Thank you very much. I’m happy you enjoyed it! 😊
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How kind! Thank you for sharing my post.
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Just discovered your blog and this post today. Great advice. Thanks so much for passing it on.
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Welcome, Sandra! I’m happy you visited! Thank you. 😊
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I found your blog at dfolstad58 and it was very interesting to read from you.
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Thank you and welcome!! 🙂
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